Guilt and The Chronic Illness Life

Guess what can make me feel the guiltiest...

They have needs I can not meet on a daily basis. I have to call in favors. Ask friends and family to walk them when my wrist or shoulder or feet are dislocated. That's it, my little temper tantrum that I can not always give back to my fuzziest of friends what they deserve. What do you feel guilt over? How do you work through the guilt?